ever wonder why kids pick up languages faster than adults? Part of it, is because they are not afraid to speak wrong. In other words they are ok with making mistakes down the road as long as they try to communicate.
I have been teaching for over 20 years in south Florida. My first school was a traditional Tae Kwon Do and Kick-Boxing School, with the majority of the students then being kids. I can honestly say the kids were better students, at least in the beginning years of their training, because of 3 major reasons : 1) agility, Tae Kwon Do is more acrobatic then HaganaH and it requires a certain set of attributes to truly excel in it. On this the kids clearly had an advantage. 2) Kids don’t care if they do it wrong as long as they having a good time with the training. The fear of not having it right simply does not exsist with the kids. 3) The fact that the kids are truly like a sponge, when they walk in to the school they absorb 100% of the training presented. Adults tend to bring their world on the mat and have a harder time disconnecting.
but, let me stick to the subject of this post : Fear of doing it wrong…
The fear of doing it wrong sometimes is bigger obstacle of doing it right for beginning students. Almost to the point that they will stop themself of doing the technique in the middle and actually freeze. It is very important for beginner students to accept the fact that they will make mistakes as they progress in the system. In other words enjoy the journey of learning and develop your skills as you go, the mistakes will be cleaned up so to speak as you understand the materials presented better and your set of skills has developed to a proficency level needed to match the strategies deployed.
And in parrallel , as in self-defense training and anything in life, if you first emotional thought going into doing something/anything is fear you will have more chances of failing that specific attempt. Versus if you first emotional thought going into that specific attempt is fear free, you will have a better chance succeeding it. Being fear free is not a guarantee , but it gives you much better odds!
hope every body has a Kick Ass week, its FIGHT Certification week here at the National Headquarters, I know we going to have a Strong week of training!
